Remember, you can’t control how your ex feels about you. Every hour of every day goes so slow. Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Olga, mine left a year ago and we have a 4 year old son.ive tried for a year to speak to him to just anger him and get verbal abuse.He was the love of my life. You’re not alone. My life would have ended at that moment. I miss him every day. In the meantime I had the worst week of my life sick constantly achy scared of miscarriage two kids to organise a dog to walk and guilty thoughts of termination because I felt that he couldn’t possible love me..how could I cope alone! I would still get jealous at times and we would still fight. Without my soulmate. Sometimes i just sit in my room and feel desperate to just talk to him or just feel really sad and the only person i feel will make me feel better is him but he wont be there . He doesn't spend enough time on you, and he only comes to you when he needs to. My ex husband was my best friend so my boyfriend was kind of a replacement for that – someone to spend time with and do exciting things with. I cant stand it. I am going threw the same. but before the official break up. When your husband no longer loves you it's time to face the reality of what's in store for your future. He still sees me as his wife one day and the future mother of our kids but says its just too much right now.. Instead of continuing to fight your way through the brambles and dark patches, take my hand. I did everyday text of I love you, calls of how his day is then I stopped receiving texts and no calls. I am very upset because we have to see each other he has student accomodation and says he can’t take the kids there but it doesn’t work him visiting I always cry and hate to hear of his nights out which I hate to hear about. This was all me. It hurts terribly esp when we just had 2 babies. But then after a few months the novelty wore off and he felt like he was just going through the motions. Yet we still go out, still see each other, at times she invites me to spend the night. We’ve been together 10 years.Tons of trials and tribulations. A part of me wishes he will come back to me one day but the way he ended things and deleted our pictures off of his social media . i am so sad.i can’t sleep all night wandering why he is not interested in me. Say, “you can’t treat me this way. They happen because two people are not meant to be together. I’m going to pick that book up. Write down every awesome thing about yourself that you can think of. I said I don’t want to settled for, Im not the consolation prize. I was grateful that he honestly told me his feelings towards me.I was shocked and it shattered me coz never did I thought he felt that way. I was devistated and have not been able to get over this. I wanna calm relationships. so we stop talking and I find it weird that he actually listened to me. Again, I’m so incredibly sorry. Maybe you’re both grieving the end of your relationship, and you need to let go slowly. Thank you for sharing this article. What Secretly Delights You About Social Isolation? This was a day after we celebrated our 5th anniversary. I felt heartbroken. Now, I truly think I have. Hello, Not sure how to even start.. Right now, I am just waiting. Memory triggers can be anything, from seeing a picture of that person on your Facebook feed to hearing a song that you associate with a wonderful time that you had with him or her. I told him that but he just responded: “I’m tired.” He didn’t show concern of my health. I'll get to you later." I’m so sorry I have deceived you (and myself) for so many years. I supported him for years both emotionally and with money. I moved in with my boyfriend and had to get another job where I was paid a lot less. Do what he wants, when he wants. I was not in a very happy place at all. i know it will get easier. I’m at a lost. But he never read my messages. Shock immediately took a hold of me. It may reduce feelings of anxiety and anger, and can even reduce your body’s feelings of stress. Because if he doesn’t come back you don’t want your whole world to leave with him. He need space and time to think because he doesn’t want to make a bad decision. So why would he leave for that nightmare life? It ended up too much for him as it would anyone. This conversation is over and I am never speaking to you again.” Say this to those who bully you. These may actually make you feel worse when you’re feeling down. In the end, I asked him if his feelings for me were completely gone and he answered with yes. I finally texted him my concerns and he just said, “honestly, I’m not feeling it anymore.” That hurts. Watch a hilarious movie. Although down 14lbs in 3 weeks…I’m only 162lbs normally last year. He beggged his ex wife to stay. Giving him space is good but you need to start working on building a life outside of him. Also — if there’s a support group of some sort in your area, it might be good to join it…the more you surround yourself with people who have survived a similar situation, the healthier and stronger you’ll be! MJ: hey there – my boyfriend of 18 months recently broke up with me and told me he loves me but not in love with me. Not even about the flat. I copied the list every morning (things like: I am beautiful, I deserve intimacy, I don’t tolerate emotional abuse, People love to pay me money for what I most love to do, I trust trust worthy people etc.) Even though this sounds horribly heartbreaking, there’s no point in wasting time with someone, if they no longer love you. Im feeling empty and can feel the depression leaking back in. Recently I moved in with him and i notice changes on him we dont kiss hug cuddle more less have sex anymore but yet, we still do thing together and we still sleep in the same bed. He said we are friends we never have a relationship. He complimented me and made me feel like I’m the most beautiful woman for him and that he loves me more than anything else. We had good times together, but we have had horrible nights due to my fears. I just don’t know anymore. Oh and he wants to be able to go out and do things and we have an 8 year old, soon to be 5 year old and our baby who just turned 1. Just want this emptiness to end so I can get back to living my life. His response in which I’ve heard before. Or push him further into leaving….. She’s almost 50 but he smiles when he sees her and just gives me sad eyes when he see me. We had plans. I asked my ex husband to do that and he agreed. I dont understand. My boyfriend and I recently gotten engaged. *deep breath…. He just wanted to be friends because as a girlfriend i was too pushy and too selfish. I love him with all my heart and i want nothing more but to work this out. He will contact you, my ex contacted me as well although he said almost the same things as your boyfriend. My husband left me last month during christmas day. i used to go to work and count down the hours of the day to either see him or to get to the weekend to see him and now what do i have counting down the hours of a weekday to what an empty weekend. I don’t understand. Remember when you're in the ice ready to be put in a coffin, that person will be happy. Years of this I decided to move out. I think you’ll probably get more understanding as time passes. Everything was amazing in the beginning. And to top it off, this is the first time in my life that I am completely broke with no job. I broke off the contact and blocked him because I still have feelings. “And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.” That’s one tip for when he stops loving you: take a step back and let the air flow between you. How did I not see this coming and why didn’t he give me any warning? He would only text me, tell me he missed me and wanted to see me but he didn’t. My husband replaced me whilst he was crashing on my couch before he moved out. The authors suggest finding someone with a secure attachment style if you have an anxious attachment style. It doesn’t matter where you live, how old you are, how much money you make or what you look like. I believed him. Before he left we got enganged. I know he still loves me too. So maybe i had been a bit more clingy then normal. Anyways, one day, he just came out and told me that he didn’t love me anymore. He told me he has feelings for someone else, I asked him for how long and he told me for 2 months. I have bent over backwards to change my outlook on our relationship.. tried everything I can to make him happy.. and its not enough.. he looks at me and tells me he feels Im doing all these nice things for him because I have to.. not because I want to.. so it just doesnt matter what I do.. it seems he will never believe Im doing all this things for him because I want to.. So we were reallllyyy good before the whole covid 19 thing, he was my first boyfriend ever, I gave him everything in me, he was even the first person I was ever intimate with, first man to see my nakedness. So, she sometimes needs help getting things done, and I’ve always been there for her. We were together for 2 and a half years and its been the best time of my whole life. I still struggle a little some days but i can tell you i am nowhere near the mess i was when it all happened. he still wants to share a bed, but I don’t know how thats going to go. He hasn’t replied to my messages except once, to say he doesn’t love me anymore. .. We’ve been together for 4 years. He made me feel like I was on top of the world. The stress from his life addling his brain? I want closeness, in fact I need it. I have been with my partner for nearly five years, but days ago he dropped the bombshell that he thinks that he no longer finds me sexually attractive. It’s a deep and thick book – and the title alone is worth chewing on. My husband after 1 year of marriage and 3 of being together said he wants a divorce. It didn’t happen over night but I’m grateful now two years later, that my ex set me free by saying he didn’t love me… and that I had the courage to know that I deserve so much more. I didn’t really know what I wanted to do with my life just that I wanted it to change. Buy he didnt said it to me directly. I will let him go and if it is meant to be than he will come back to me, if not then theres something better for me out there. Going through the exact same thing. He says things like ‘I need to fix the problems in my life first’. but he never let me go he made me stay. please help me what to do. He said he wants me in his life so wanted to try to make it work. So you don’t have to make the same mistake of falling in love with someone who doesn’t want closeness. However, it wasn’t. The only scary thing, and I think we all feel this, it the thought of having to do it all over again. What do you do if you’re not married? In our travels we compliment each other and help each other through the tough times etc…. Knowing you’re not alone may not make the pain go away, but it may be easier to bear knowing that you’re not the only person to go through this. He started to become featured in her drawings. hello wounded heart, we have the same situation exactly the same on ly that i have a child, if youire there can you send me a message and we could talk and try to do our best how to forget them and show them we dont need them . We did still meet up some weekends though but I felt ignored and let down by him doing that in the first place. Healing is focusing on the things that give you strength, peace, and a sense of connection with something bigger than yourself. Help? married again. He said that wasn’t happening now. I know deep down that its better like this. please help me to be strong. I know I have left the house in a state of disaster, but as soon as I can, I will get it fixed and cleared out. We had arguments, we are both jealous types. We and my husband separate on 2 mos we get divorce though hard decision i dont want to think about it now.We have a lot of ups and down.and he broke my heart when he told me he dont love me anymore and said he is over with me and our marraige i let him go even it it is too painful we have 8 years of marraige..He move to other cointry and its getting more difficult to talk coz everytime we have fight he block me and doesnt want to talk to me..and if ever he reply he think i am chasing him.I get tired of his childish behavior so i let him go and even it it painful and i still love him.now i am focusing on myself and my kids. I lost my will to live. Then last night, after a great day where he purchased photos of us on our excursion to “add to out collection” and a great night at the hotel, we got back to the room and he said “I don’t know why you’re acting like we are still in a relationship.”. The good thing is that he’s finally going to a therapist to talk about his issues, but recently he shared that even though I’ve been the best girlfriend he’s ever had, sees nothing wrong with me, he doesn’t know if us being together is what he wants. He was the first one to say I love you. Cuz hea too drunk to drive … Sometimes we have to accept that it’s time to let go and move on….especially if you know in your heart of hearts that he doesn’t love you the way you DESERVE to be loved. Men can be just as bad as women. Now he is saying that I’m smothering him and told my step mom that he doesn’t care about me anymore and that he doesn’t love me.. You will need support as some days are harder. I kept fighting for our relationship letting him walk all over me because we had been together through all this crap I wanted it to be worth it!! I couldn’t believe why he was saying that when I was all alone in a unknown country and the only person I knew there was him. He invited me to come out there to visit, was excited about it and said those things that make a woman really think that: “He is serious!, he really acts like he is concerned about me, my life and so on”. Acknowledge the sadness and regret that comes over you, and turn your attention to something positive or neutral (what you're going to have for dinner, that trip you have coming up). I spoke with him yesterday and he told me (over text) that he doesn’t love me and hadn’t for a long time. I hope this helps someone going through this right now. I pray to God every morning to bring peace to him and ask for strength to help us both through this tough time. he blocked me on every account possible, facebook, instagram, phone. I told him that we have been dating for over 3 yrs, he have met my daughter too after 2 yrs dating and think its time to take out relationship one step up. That is what you must answer for yourself. and he thinks about it wondering if he is doing e right thing. What does this mean to you? I believe in my case there was mental illness and drug abuse. Id do anything to have him back. I fail to understand why women continue to put out for men that are so blatantly using them. I pray that God will carry me though this and support my efforts to let go and let God handle this situation. I don’t wan’t to leave anymore(((. 40 to be exact. I have been trying to just workout to feel better about myself. That’s okay! Now he is telling me to look for someone else and I don’t want anyone but him. I pray for healing and comfort as you accept this breakup. I had passed the exams and I was done with university. I kept trying to make excuses of why i said it and that I didn’t mean it and all this stuff, just making things worse basically. did I tell you his family loves or loved me? Love yourself so that when you are ready to move on with someone who is deserving of you, he meets your expectations! This 50+ page book was all about what I mean to him and why he loves me. He was crying when he told me. Every time we survived something like this, I felt undying love. As weird as it sounds after the way he hurt me, I am afraid I won’t ever find the joy again that he brought me. He discarded me when things were going really well, when I was feeling stronger. i love him . …. The people I surround myself with treat me like a precious gem. We couldnt survive it as hard as I tried. I went round there when he asked to go pick up his car and went to see if they had broken into his house. We got back together, but just a month into it I could tell he was starting to have his doubts again. We talked. I was a complete mess, i begged him to work on the relationship despite the cheating and everything i wanted to make this work. If you have decided to let go, consider the steps outlined below. The closer we get the more distance he needs to create. Hearing someone say “I’m not in love with you anymore” hurts more than words can say. My mind goes all over the place. May you find ways to let him go so you can move on with your life, and find resources for rebuilding your confidence and self-esteem. You are not alone. YOU can’t change him or make things right for him to want to be with you. will he miss my annoyingness and clinginess one day, will he regret his decision? We dont have the perfect relationship but we go through it all together. then we promised to change but nothing ever change. Or he has his eyes on someone or is cheating on me. What should I do? The only way I know how to do this is with God’s help. It took him months to move out. We used to be together before, we met almost everyday. And it’s impossible to love a man like that. Many women need to leave husbands, women who have nothing and feel dis-empowered. Wow MJRP you sound so wise and strong and clear. Within about two weeks of him knowing ( I’m now ten weeks) he walked out on me back to his mothers saying he needed space at first then eventually saying he had been trying to be what I wAnted and that it wasent real- that he used to love me but not anymore. We have all mutual friends, we are each others’ best friend. Ouch!it hurts..this is so me also here and it hurts..but we never got that intimate, I think it doesn’t matter if you have been with someone for 20 years or four months, those words I don’t love you anymore hurt like hell. Wow! We have one more month up on the lease, he still lives there but I moved back home because I couldn’t live there and see our memories. You have to remember that you are a special person who deserves to be treated with respect. I become really sad and depressed because I feel used and he’s confused. Don't expect everyone to understand. We use cookies to make wikiHow great. Saying The Words He’s always made me feel loved and happy and supported, and also respected. I wish I had better answers for you; it’s a long process to rebuild your self-identity — but you’ll be glad you did! We took a break for about 3 months, and made it work and a year back into it he shuts down. I told him i wouod always be there for him but its sad its not a mutual feeling. It’s hard but it will cause more damage than good. My heart is breaking reading each and every story. A guy doesn’t love a girl. Learning to push yourself past your comfortable boundaries also makes it easier to deal with uncertainty next time. Its beena. If you’re feeling bad about yourself because of the rejection, make a list of all of the good things about yourself. For the past 3 years since splitting up we have always remained in contact, on and off but never longer than about 2-3 weeks without speaking at all. But tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, or some other day, everything will be good between us. His family was wonderful. But he turned that down. Hello ladies! You don’t deserve it and no matter how bad it hurts at the time you will get over it! I keep asking him if I did something wrong and he denies it but he is so cold, we are supposed to still be together yet he is alwasy off by himself I try to talk to him but he runs away I have been unemployed for nearly a year due to my ex taking my job away, and a couple of operations that I had to have. If you’re comfortable, email me and I will give you my honest opinion. He parties with boys that are half his age. I kinda hate myself sometimes because now that I know, I think about the past and a lot of instances come up that now make sense knowing he is not happy & depressed. He was sweet, caring, smart, reliable, mature and everything I wanted in a partner. I couldn’t believe he didn’t love me and try to fight to get him talk to me. He’s now remarried and I contacted him to tell him about our shared 14 year old dog having to o be put down.He immediatley brought up every wrong thing I’d ever said or did, blamed the whole demise of the marriage on me. I went through a divorce last year for which I received no support and maybe I’m not done processing that either. Now, you’re lost and alone and heartbroken — and you’re confused about why this is happening. More than anything, it causes me such deep sadness because I invested years of my life. He had more feelings for her than he thought. We will be better off apart. I was of course so hurt and confused since he has never cheated or mistreated me in any way ever but I also knew he was exhausted from work so I calmly set the phone down next to him and quietly left the room. We seemed to get past it and I’ve never repeated anything like that again. Ya oops. I thought he has forgiven me for that mistake. I just don’t get it. I have to take responsibility for taking my relationship to this point. Unfortunately we broke up twice. Thank you! I went through the same and unfortunately I made a lot of mistakes. I do everything I can for her. So, now, suddenly, it’s 10 yrs later, and he says he’s felt this way since he got sick. I am willing to do everything even I am trash for him now. There are no guarantees in love, in life, or in anything. I just shouted. He said he’s tried hard but he couldn’t. We share some common interest and I will have to see him periodically due to these interest. I thought we were great, moving forward together. I haven’t even been able to move out and he has blocked me The last couple of days I noticed him being very distant with me. I am really depressed and sad. This is not your fault. When I asked if he ever loved me he said he loves me he’s just not in love with me. we also do this after school thing together and it’s awkward because he acts like im not even there, and he doesnt talk to me. He did and thing were great for the first 8 months but then slowly things began to erode over the past 6 months, I was over worked and trying to save money for us to get into a house together, he stopped coming over and going to his friends more then 2 months ago after he met an older woman (8 yrs older than him, 11 yrs older than me)who he says is just a friend who he met at the bar while I worked but then he comes out and tells me he loves me but not in love with me anymore. But, not in love… Will he ever change his mind or am i hoping. I cannot wait to find someone who loves me for who i am. explore that. Every day he changes his mind! It was as if everything was amazingly perfect. We had a rocky start to our relationship. I feel that he has left me high and dry. Sometimes we need to get back to where we were, before we can figure out where we want to go in life. Only the other day we were still talking about moving in together having a baby getting married, we had booked tickets for somewhere next month i just don’t know what to do i love him so much and always will with all my heart i just want him back. In that moment my heart broke my whole world came tumbling down. Your boyfriend needs time and space, and it breaks your heart. but then everyday he changed his mind and he told me i dont love you anymore. We’ve had our ups and downs of course but never anything major and never split up once. #mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; } I know What I am feeling hurts, but I also know what he is going through is something I dont know if I would be able to handle myself. ", the feelings. I said love doesn’t died in days we can workout things and be together. Nameless July 15, 2018, 3:45 am. Together for 11. I have been taking this marriage for 14 years for the sake of my children. Thank you so much for the information. You are not alone. Nothing sweet. Grow as you would if he were next to you, and maybe he will be once again. The kids and I were in a horrific car accident, I suffered a lot of injuries and struggled with my anger and pain. The argument we had before he did this was because I lost my head and he was in a relationship with a girl and as bad as it is, we were still in contact and had slept together during etc. He criticizes you. I became frustrated with his questions and asked why he even cared because I felt like he hasn’t truly cared about me for awhile. Nameless July 15, 2018, 3:45 am. How can someone you have been married to for over 18 years together for 26 just decide my fate and his too, REALLY…..I felt as though he waited for daughter to graduate college and so on….. My husband and I were together for 13 yrs, had 2 amazing kids together.. Look- We’re not kids we’re in our early 60’s. He is one of the best persons I have ever known, coward, buthas a grest heart. How are you coping with your feelings? You’re a good person, and you need to surround yourself with people who care and who know you so they can help you. But we constantly argue…, I’ve put on a few extra pounds since we met. He could only see me as a friend. Because we actually talked and got to know each other a month or so before actually meeting. He told me this morning that I need to breathe and find a way to make him fall back in love with me. He came here 5 times. I mean because still hanging on to him might end up being a bad situation. I don’t know how old he is but my partner was 49 and he’s never going to change, he’s too messed up and too emotionally morose. i do every thing he asks of me and even things he doesnt. I accepted him and his flaws and when nobody was there for him I was. Also, you may want to find a good therapist or life coach in your area. For some couples, it can take many years to completely fall out of love with your spouse. Please share, Kim, They have been together over a year. This woman was someone he has worked with for several years and I’ve even met her myself on a number of occasions. We have so much. He has to work far away for him to be able to provide for our future. Trust me I will . I’m in a very similar situation so I understand the pain. You’re grieving your loss, and that’s normal and healthy. We saw eachother only once or twice a week and I felt like he was living 2 apart lifes. Then came the confessions of cheating and how he could no longer look me in the eye knowing what he had done. He would plan to see me and I would feel so unbelievable happy and hopeful and then he would say he can’t and it crushed me. Maybe you feel abandoned, rejected, and unworthy of love. He would still call me to stay and I would sometimes. We were together for 5 years ..married for 3.. we had a our last fight 2 weeks ago before he told me he wasnt happy and didnt find me attractive anymore he said i care for you but i wasnt happy i don’t understand what happend i used to do everything for him he was in the army i waited months weeks days never cheated om him i only had eyes for him i used to not work when he was in the army i would always be there for him to tell me about his days i would cook every day clean and wash and care for him when he was sick i used to sacrifice my sleep to take care of him always always i only had eyes for him. Take up flamenco guitar. Talking about another man is a sign that your wife no longer loves you. I’m sorry that you broke up with him….wait a minute, I’m not sorry. It has been very sad and frustrating for me, because until now, I didn’t know he was feeling like this. I begged for him to come home until new years day. Next thing I know I receive a “Dear John” letter in the mail! but we tried to be less controlling but i cant. I am too going to study abroad, and unfortunately my boyfriend did not want to join me on the experience. Some days are good, some days I break down. I recently got acquainted again with my high school sweetheart who lives across the country and has been there for 20+ years. I kept pushing – once a week I’d push real hard and he got tired of it and told me goodbye last Wednesday, by text and said he doesn’t love me.. Leaving him would have been a bit easier but I had my daughter the best that came out of the marriage. Marcy, I am in tears, because it feels so similar to mine, except, mine did cheat with someone at work and has been for a while. me and my fiance always hav been fighting in very silly matters. Nobody can correct your feelings. It’s easy to feel like the other person rejected you because you weren’t pretty/smart/buff/whatever enough. 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