Ooh Francesca! There is room here for you to shine as brightly as you are able. If you’re feeling like you’re the one bearing the brunt of the workload, it’s totally fair to want to let your co-workers or boss know how much time you’re putting in. I told myself that what I was doing was polite. Strictly Necessary Cookie should be enabled at all times so that we can save your preferences for cookie settings. xo. You have a very tiny waist. I have goosebumps too. I used those obstacles to deny myself entry to the life that I desperately wanted for myself. It’s OK to be intense, passionate, quirky, radical, fierce, badass, full-on … whatever you wanna call it. I know what it means. Because nothing good comes from trying to be and do what you think you “should”. Flinging thirty-years of training that, “A soft answers turns away wrath,” I snapped, “Just fine, thank you!” It was the last time I spoke to my father. You're too much! Being told that we’re too sensitive is akin to an elbow in the solar plexus. To dumb down your words. Well, tough. Please check your entries and try again. And I'm sure you don't want that for your life. Thank you. I'm confident your answer will be YES. Have you said something or behaved in a way that was inappropriate? In the past I had considered myself to be “too sensitive” and “overly emotional,” and those around me would often say the same. Big hugs and huge love, mama! Too intense. It is a love note to you as much as myself. When I'm talking about people saying you're too much, I mean in regard to how you talk or laugh, the clothes you wear, the colour or style of your hair, your friendliness, your passion for a particular hobby or interest, your energy, your desire to be successful, the dreams you have and so on. Do you need to own that and apologise for it? Don’t worry about boosting the narcissist’s ego with your acknowledgments (it’s not possible anyway). I’m so glad she did. But I guess it is a part of me.. I apologized for my quickness of speech, the way that I hopped up out of my seat when I was really turned on about something. Being out of alignment with your real self will make life harder than it needs to be and create a heap of unnecessary stress. So to me when someone says I’m thinking about something too much, it’s like they’re saying “You’re having too much fun.” That doesn’t make any sense to me at all. Thank you for writing it. I apologized for my grades, lying about or hiding my successes. Thanks for this, Mara. Yes! But compare that to when you show up as you and live in alignment with your highest values. I love this comment – thank you. We have got to step our game up and stop listening to those who would undersize and dim us; it’s their fault they can’t handle our magnificence, not ours. 9 Secret Signs of Loneliness. I have never felt the need to stop shining until recently; I do not own a car and I half to walk to about 35 minutes to class everyday, I have always been interested in fashion and make up– I look good for myself, NOT for other people. That is your new mantra. You do not have to have it all figur, I’m spending time this evening thinking of how I, This is 35 // thank you for all of your love and k, This error message is only visible to WordPress admins, Mara Glatzel » When Too Much is Also Not Enough, Link Love (11/12/2012) « Becky's Kaleidoscope, Mara Glatzel » A Love Note to all of the “Control Freaks” + Micromanagers Out There, A Love Note to The Feminine Empath | Radiant Soul Space. When you post, you'll get a message telling you "You're doing that too much. No girl wants to date someone who acts as her father – be sure to steer clear of the guys who try to control every aspect of your life. The times in my life when I've been most stressed have ALL had one thing in common. Something went wrong. It’s OK to be you, your fullest self, your most radiant self, glowing with all the love and juicy goodness you’ve got to give. I have never felt self-conscious about this until recently; everyday cars slow down and offer me rides, ask for my name; I am starting to be afraid of being taken an thrown into a car.. calling to much attention to myself for being myself, being raped/robbed/followed home … do you have any advice for this? Too much means you are speaking up and voicing your opinions too much means that you are leading. Or "You're over-analysing – you just need to do it." Hey there, I’m Tracey, a life coach based in Te Awamutu, a small town in the Waikato region of New Zealand. My feelings were easily hurt and I could cry at the drop of a hat. Trying to be someone you're not, is a sure-fire way to create a state of inner tension that makes it hard to feel grounded, confident or strong. A lot. Yes, this is the first on the list. Thanks for that wisdom Dr Seuss. You'll second-guess what you say or do and feel unsure about who you are. Too much is just the right amount. In it, you’ll learn the 8 core elements that make-up “life”. But I sincerely wish I was less emotional and sensitive sometimes because it’s just exhausting! Thanks for this. One may be the loneliest number, but research shows that a lack of acquaintances isn't the only warning sign of solitude. Focus your interest on the job or company itself. To that end, here are 8 ways you can bet you’re ruining your relationship and heading to splitsville. It's true that there's a condition known as "paralysis of analysis" - where a person dwells on a situation for so long they can no longer act. Here’s the thing – we are born to sparkle. Um, and so, so much of the work that I do with people who are struggling with depression and anxiety, and that’s why I had to go on this rant today about, when people are telling you you’re too emotional is because so much of it is this route that people have told you that you’re too emotional. (Like, immediately?) Mama Gena’s. I teach gentle souls practical tools and mindset strategies to consciously create their life. People take advantage of your compassion and kindness often. A life aligned with who they are and what they truly value. Hey there, I'm Tracey and I work with business owners, leaders and individuals who want to achieve real success. To fit into a box that is much too small for the magnificence of your being. – I’ve been realizing that it’s still why I’m staying “not visible” in so many ways. Expresses a mixture of surprise and admiration of behavior that is considered extreme or well beyond expected social norms; generally to express praise and shock at another person's capacity to be balsy. Yup! Thank you for this post and a reminder that I don’t have to lessen myself for others. How have you made excuses, played pretend, or minimized the significance of what you wanted, so as to mitigate the future pain of not succeeding? If someone is being rude, offensive or putting themselves or others in danger, then that's not okay. This is me too. Been Told You're Too Sensitive? Thanks for subscribing! I think of “Too Sensitive” “Too Emotional” as what describes me. And not just any life! Take your partner for granted. Well you know what I say. With that being said, here are 14 specific examples of things you shouldn't tolerate in a relationship: ... Lots of people know you're beautiful. Glory hallelujah. Skip on over here to take a class with me or scoop up my weekly newsletter to get immediate access to The Roost, a resource library of 6+ hours of video workshops and guided meditations to help you cultivate unshakable self-worth, right this second. I just knew I felt so deeply that at times, it caused me to become very anxious. There's no one like you. Being so young, however, I had no idea what was going on. And not just any life! But, Governor Kate Brown has COVID restrictions on large gatherings too. You start to believe it…that you’re “too much” of this or that. Join me and start your live well journey today. I don’t even know what to add except that this post gave me goosebumps. Here are 5 signs you care just a little too much: 1. Trust me, I know first-hand! I love to have a good hearty laugh but I wouldn't show up laughing at a solemn event like a funeral! He acts way too dominant: Guys who act too controlling come off as crazy and stressful. How many times have you kept my mouth shut when your heart was beating a million beats a moment and your inner light was tripping over herself she was so ecstatic about what you were doing? I wouldn’t let it bother you though there’s certainly truth in the old adage that ignorance is bliss sometimes! THANK YOU! This post is a love note to the women who were told that good women just don’t behave that way. A very powerful post, Mara. And stressful too. The one reframe I want to give you when anyone ever tells you that you're too much is this: too much is just the right amount. Women are constantly being told they're "too much" (whatever that means), "too intense," "too emotional," "too aggressive" — you get the idea. New posts will not be retrieved. It’s not just OK, it’s ESSENTIAL. Yes, there'll be times when we need to moderate how we show up. It's then that you feel in-flow and at peace. They Aren't Rude. The answer? Sign yourself & receive my best tools for redefining your self-care so that it actually works for you. Too many people in the last few weeks have told me that I’m too passionate, too opinionated, too ready to give my opinion. When we're doubting ourselves, everything will be harder. All rights reserved. It is about accepting yourself fully, and yes, that does mean loving up your least shiny parts. I’ve got your back. M A M A // These days my life is full of calico cr, A practice: There are a lot of things outside of o, Hello new humans! Introverts can be quiet and reserved when you meet them, and it can be difficult to … Like a moth emerging from a chrysalis I’m in the process of emerging, and once out there will be no going back inside . It means saying to yourself, it may not always be pretty, but at least it’s all mine. Being told you're overqualified for a job can feel like someone telling you you're too awesome to date. I’ve got you covered! 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