Have the courage to believe that something better is out there. Okay, so we aren't a couple right now. A reader recently wrote in, because her boyfriend of 18 months has seemingly dodged one of those key relationship landmarks: “We haven’t said ‘I love you’ to each other,” she says. 2. He doesn’t trust you. Even if he hasn’t said that he loves you, there are many different ways he could be showing his love for you—you just have to pay attention. That's not right, you SHOULD be worried now. He Hasn't Said "I Love You" C.L. Even if he hasn’t said that he loves you, there are many different ways he could be showing his love for you—you just have to pay attention. You shouldn't have a boyfriend at the end of that conversation. We were spending time together after his dad passed away (a week after we broke up). Contributor. Asking About Your Day. You never said he says "sorry babe". 1. We were together almost 8 months when I broke up with him. When you love someone, you should feel genuinely terrible about hurting them, and if he can’t even muster up the emotion to feel terrible about cheating on you, then he may not truly love you. If you're not saying aloud (or at least to yourself) "I love you" to your mate in six months or less, hit the "next" button. Now if months passed and he hasn’t said it that’s a different story. (Hell, I think you might even be able to know sooner than that, but I'm trying to be reasonable here.) He doesn't love you anymore, if he's apologizing for not saying it. There have been multiple times where I have had to bite my tongue to not say it. He hasn't said I love you since we got back together? To figure it out all you have to do is to compare what a man in love vs. a man not in love does (or does not do). They may not say ‘I love you’ but they surely WILL SHOW. He wants you to connect with his family and friends. And to top that off, I think a woman knows when a man loves her and I think if someday you realize that he really doesn’t love you then you will know when it’s the right time to let him go. He still hasn't said I love you. Love. Asking About Your Day; It may seem like common sense, but when someone loves you, they care about your well-being. No no no. Hell he might even be cheating on you. Here are a few signs that your boyfriend does love you, he just hasn’t told you yet. No no no, you need to talk to him right now and ASK him what the problem is. I would like to hear it from him first because when he says it I want to know he is saying it because he means it and wants to say it not because he feels obligated. Men are wired differently. Plus, you could always fall out of love … Here are a few signs that your boyfriend does love you, he just hasn’t told you yet. May 18, 2011, 21:26 EDT ... but I wasn't scared to say it because I was 110% sure he would say it back … 11. 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